It’s after Derek’s death Amelia is very mad at Meredith for pulling the plug while you are on Meredith’s side, Your husband was Mark Sloan and you have 3 kids with him, Alexia (10 yo) Zalina (Adopted, same age as Zola) and Mark Jr (You named after mark, 3 yo) Meredith’s kids are, Zola (4 yo), Bailey (3 yo) and Ellis (1 week)